And how completely painless!! This was the first time our agency has used this particular clinic, and I have to highly recommend the process. As most adoptive parents know, the 8 doctor medical is pretty much a formality. For some, it is painful, for others... not so much. It all depends on where you get it done. So here's how it went down, for those that are interested.
We drove to the wrong place a couple of times. Like I mentioned, this was the first time they had used this place and they weren't sure exactly where it was. Once we found it, we went into a big conference-type room and sat down to wait. We were joined by three other families and their coordinators. One by one the different doctors (all women) drifted in the room. They began shuffling everyone's paperwork and x-rays around and making notes. At one point they got everyone's stuff all tangled up and confused, but it all got straightened out, thank Heaven!
Apparently HIPPA rules don't apply here, they just went around the room asking questions of each family. Had we ever sustained a head injury? Had our parents ever sustained a head injury - like that matters? The neurologist made us look at her little hammer then tapped our wrists and knees. That was the neuro exam. We got asked very generally and almost in passing if we drank alcohol or smoked cigarettes. Had we had any surgeries ever seen a dermatologist for anything.
Then we did the dance behind the little curtain. With our shirts off, they listened to our lungs and checked our blood pressure. One poor woman forgot where she was and walked back out without her shirt on. We all laughed a little and that was that. Over and done.
I really have no idea who was who, and the whole process lasted just under two hours. We never left the conference room, just paid up and left. Out of all of them, only three of them asked us any questions.
One more thing down... one left to go. We get to see the boys again tomorrow, then court at 10:30 on Thursday.
That is all the news that is news around here....
Christmas Letter 2017
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